ayeeepatrick:

People say that falling in love with your best friend is nonsense and awkward. I beg to differ. It’s only awkward, if you make it awkward. There’s nothing wrong with growing interest in the person whom you are close to. There’s nothing wrong with growing interest in the person whom you enjoy spending time with, conversing, and just being able to embrace the presence of one another. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with any of that. As a matter of fact, that’s what you should be aiming for; at least, that’s what I’m aiming for. You both already know what each other like and dislike. You know each others’ limits and boundaries, what to say and what not to say. You’re fully aware of what to expect from one another. The little things you say or do that just puts a smile on their face. The little things you notice about them that shows that you actually care; these “little things” are all major factors, that come into play later on. You’re both open to each other with thoughts and feelings; basically, you trust each other. With that being said, trust is one of the key necessities to maintaining a healthy relationship. Best friends know each other the best, and that gives more than enough strength to put forth into a relationship. You shouldn’t find a relationship with someone who you will think that it was “love at first sight”. Honestly, I think that theory is complete bullshit. Find someone that has your back, rather than someone who catches your eyes. You cannot expect to fall in love with someone whom you have not established a friendship of some sort with at first. Take in consideration, that love and affection gradually grows overtime. A strong bond between two individuals, results in a relationship that is inseparable. The strongest relationship, is based upon a solid and profound friendship.  Find someone who can be your best friend, and lover. Love is flexible. Love has no restrictions. Love has no limits. Love is versatile. But most of all, Love is compatible.